About Me


There is nothing to complicated about me. I am a southern girl from North Carolina (USA). I am an avid reader, a home chef (self-taught), an artist who loves to paint abstracts. I competed at the college level in Basketball and played softball as well, and I love just about all sports. Fast forward a few years since college (let’s just say 15 yrs ahead) and I’m in a predicament.  I have ballooned up 100 lbs. to 260 lbs. , nothing fits, and I’m unhappy with being unhealthy. It’s time for a change. Six months ago a friend convinced me that cycling was the perfect sport to get you back in the game sorta speak, Healthy. She told me that with riding and eating properly the weight would fall off. I road during the summer and fall and felt great. Then, I hit a stumbling block, I got sick…. I know sucks… Now I’m better and ready to rock and roll. There was one thing that still needed some attention though , and that is accountability. That’s where you my readers can help me. I want you to go on this journey with me. You will help me stay on the straight and narrow and in the process I hope to give you inspiration, hope, and some helpful knowledge about life, cycling, food/ nutrition. I’m not going to sugar coat anything. I’m putting everything on the table, becoming an open book in order to achieve my goals. They are to lose 100lbs in a year to year and a half, to participate in my first group ride, my first race, and to inspire others to try (whatever it is they want to accomplish).

Here’s a little more about me and the journey before now. Whew( deep breath) here goes. I’ll start from about 1 1/2 years ago. It was a very windy, chilly day on November 30, 2013. The day started like a normal Saturday. Kiss the partner and animals(my fur-babies Coco and Midnight) laters and off to work at 3:00 am in the morning. Day zooms by everything  going smoothly. Then at around 15:00(3pm) I get a call from a hysterical, crying love of my life. What comes next is the worst thing that’s ever happen to me. Turned my comfortable, life upside down in seconds. The trembling sobbing voice said get to the house it’s on fire, I think it’s all gone…. It felt like being kicked in the chest by an elephant. Okay pause here a moment. For me it was devastating, I grew up in a struggling family, with little to no stability. Moved all over the place, never had many close friends, because I knew I’d be packing up and ushered away at a moments notice. So stability…. BIG DEAL. Now flash forward to November 30, 2013. Throwing everything in my bag, and screamed house on fire gotta go to my co-workers.. Hopped in my little Honda, terrified of what I would find once I arrived at my very humble abode. There I am zooming at 90 miles an hour down the highway( I know bad, dangerous, but my freaking house was on fire). All I could think of was my Coco(my 1 yr. old Boxer) and Midnight (my 13 yr. old Cocker Spaniel) IMG_0379 are inside. Arrived in front of my house and this what I saw.

IMG_1254It was crushing. Everything we worked so hard for gone……

   How could this happen you ask? This was my first question too. Did I leave the coffee pot on again or the iron? What could have happen to bring such destruction our way. Up walks the fireman in charge,” ma’am was this your residence?” Yes sir I answer with the biggest frog in my throat. Wondering how I’m going to console my partner, I couldn’t think. All I could say is How? The fireman said , ” your neighbor decided to burn trash in that there barrel, and left it unattended to go inside and take a shower. THAT IDIOT TOOK OUR LIVES THAT DAY. Both fur-babies perished in the fire. We were left with the shirts on our back and what we took to work, that’s all.

Fast forward to January and we lost the most beautiful little girl (our god-daughter) at the tender young age of 7 to brain cancer. Yes, she was one of the triplets.(in grey). One of the hardest things to understand, why?

Tay is in the grey. Miss you.
Tay is in the grey. Miss you.

If that was not enough to endure, March 5, 2013. My partner was in a very serious accident, totaling the vehicle that was not my concern. It is the neck and back injury that constantly worries me. Still isn’t fully recovered, and in pain everyday. Once again not any fault of ours. A lady not paying attention cut across in front of our car. So far my love has been out of work for almost 6 months total.

Speeding ahead a few more months to November 2014 and we get the news from our lawyer that the idiot who burned our house down, would get away with it. He had no insurance and owned nothing. We would not recoup not one red cent from him, and the law says that’s justice. We got stiffed. Yes we had insurance, which of course didn’t cover everything. Can you say wow? That was all a mouth full. All within one year. Which leads me to where I am now. Fat, Out of Shape, Depressed, and High Anxiety.  I hope that my bike can continue being part of my therapy plan… Bikes heal, mine has been my quiet place, helping me still my racing mind. So now another part of my journey starts and I would like you to join me . Thanks for reading my story.

17 Comments Add yours

  1. coach4aday says:

    Thanks for the follow. Glad you enjoyed post on Maria Parker-awesome woman, leader, and cyclist.


  2. I speak from long miles of experience. Bikes can help cure anything. It takes time, miles, and the willingness to make it happen, something about flying on two wheels is magical, and it has helped me though any number of bad things.

    Like the wind lady!

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    1. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.


      1. Anytime I can help a fellow rider :).


  3. wallancee says:

    Incredible story, I would love to be a part of your road to recovery. I used to be around 265lbs and am now a much healthier 150lbs – I am going to be putting up a post about it a bit later in the year but I would be so honoured to help you keep on the right road to be the most awesome version of you, whatever that happens to be! Take care!

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    1. Thank you… I would open-arms welcome any help, knowledge, push you can give me. And I am the one that’s honored you have reached out to me..


  4. You sound like a person of strength. Enjoy all the bike, and life can bring. Thanks for stopping by the blog always good to hear from a fellow bike traveller.

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  5. PedalWORKS says:

    Thanks for the follow.

    Wow! What a story. Bikes heal. I encourage everyone of all ages, shapes and sizes to ride. I tell them it is good for the environment, good for their health and, more than anything, fun. If you ever need encouragement or a helping hand with your bike, just let me know.

    As my son likes to say, ride until the wheels fall off.

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  6. You are a very strong person my friend..I pray everything settles for you soon..I totally agree its very easy to be broken by what took place around you in life…but I salute your spirit to move on and search solutions, and open up your story to the world, to be an inspiration..

    About me, I am just a single person, to be honest, I can never understand the kind of things that happened with you..I think I can understand only 1% of your troubles..but yet, I felt connected, I felt awesome to have come across a person, who is about to encourage me, saying – no matter what bad happens, its always the us who have to shape our fates..

    Thanks you for being on wordpress.. Keep riding:)

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    1. Thank you for your kind words.

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  7. Thanks for visiting my site and for sharing your story. Yu’re right, you have a whole lot on your plate, but you’ve got a great plan for healing. Do what you love, and love what you do. Cycling is a great way to do that. Keep on riding!

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  8. I have found that cycling is my happy place and I think you will too. Your story was tough to read but it sounds like you have kept your head and know what is important in life. I am in the same boat with the weight problem. I have been riding for three years and I haven’t really lost much weight but I can tell that I’m building muscle. I look forward to reading your stories and following in on your adventures.

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  9. evclawson says:

    Wishing you all the luck in the world to cycle your way to much deserved happiness. Thank you for your great courage and strength to share your tragic experiences with us. Your amazing determination and will to move on is inspirational and will help encourage others to do the same.

    I’m really looking forward to following your progress and reading about you discovering happier times and new found friends to help you succeed along the way. I’ve always found the cycling community to be one of the friendliest ones of all. Good luck and enjoy the road ahead!

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    1. Thank you for your kind words. 🙂


  10. Denise says:

    Thanks for liking my post. My husband is an avid cyclist and I’m just now getting into the sport. Your story is amazing. You have the right attitude and I know you will come through.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Thank you for your kind words.


  11. Libby says:

    Wow, what a catalogue of misfortune! So sorry for you. I can vouch for the therapeutic effects of cycling and it is also the easiest way to lose weight that I have found!


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